Andrew's 2nd Birthday!

>> Saturday, May 28, 2011

We were lucky enough to get the one beautiful day in the middle of two solid weeks of rain. How appropriate! We had a picnic lunch at the park with my DH and my mom, and I took Andrew on his first carousel ride. He wasn't sure about it at first, but eventually he relaxed and started enjoying it. I love this picture.



His gift from Mommy and Daddy was a super cool Radio Flyer tricycle! I think it'll be a while before he gets the hang of pedalling, but in the meantime he can coast along while we push.



The cake, made by yours truly with love. What else could it be but a dump truck?



This year, he didn't cry during "Happy Birthday." After he and Daddy blew out the candles, he couldn't resist sticking his finger in for an early taste.



He also had a little party at daycare. How freaking cute is this??

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Birthday countdown

>> Saturday, May 14, 2011

In seven, six, five, four...
In just one week, Andrew is going to be TWO!

Tonight while we were sitting at the table eating dinner, I watched my big little boy determinedly spearing pasta with his fork and tried to imagine him at five, still round-cheeked and sweet; at ten, squeaky-voiced and eager to get back to his video games; at sixteen, surly and possibly bearded — his daddy had a beard at that age! ... Okay, I've just decided: if he does turn out to be hairy like his daddy, the rule is going to be that he has to shave at least until he graduates high school.

Don't grow up too fast, my love.

Just because I want to share, here are a couple of pictures from Mother's Day:

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A sweet gift

>> Saturday, May 7, 2011

On this of all weekends, DS has suddenly started pronouncing "mommy" correctly. Until now it has been more like a slurred "munny," and now it's quite clearly "mommy" with an o and m's. And as much as I adored being called "munny," I am loving "mommy" even more. What a sweet Mother's Day gift from my boy.

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Beautiful May

>> Sunday, May 1, 2011

Hello again, beautiful May, with your glorious spring days! This month we will celebrate our seventh wedding anniversary and our sweet little boy's second birthday. Who knows what else it might bring?

We had a taste of spring last weekend and again yesterday, and I'm infatuated all over again. Andrew, it seems, loves to be outside now. When we were visiting my mom for Easter he couldn't get enough. I wish we had a backyard for him to play in at home. I'll have to make up for it with frequent trips to the park.

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23 months!

>> Sunday, April 24, 2011

Late again. This time I blame Easter.

This month we've been busy with classes. Andrew loves swimming to the extent that he always calls it "fun swimming." Creative playtime is fine, but it's a bit of a disappointment because the class description promised crafts and storytime, among other things, when actually it's just singing and free play with toys. Storytime at the library sucked, and after giving it a second chance I decided we will not be going back. I think Andrew would agree.

Andrew at 23 months: Looking back at what I wrote last month, I feel like he has changed quite a lot over the past month. He still clings to us a bit, but he's totally over the not wanting to walk in public thing. We've started taking semi-regular walks around the neighbourhood to see the many construction vehicles currently replacing the watermains or something, and we don't take the stroller. He'll walk holding our hands for several blocks. I'm so proud.

He has grown noticeably in terms of both motor and verbal skills. For example, not long ago he would just use his hands for solids and expect me to spoon-feed him cereal and yogurt, etc., but now he usually tries to use his cutlery, and he does surprisingly well. He can carry a bowl or plate of food across the room without spilling any. Verbally, he has many new words and phrases, and, adorably, he sings! He was babbling away during Easter dinner, and suddenly I realized he was singing "Itsy Bitsy Spider" — I finally clued in to the "WASH the spider out" line. He was so happy when I started singing along. He also sings verses from "Wheels on the Bus" all the time.

Fun stuff: He's finally rediscovered his early love of books. He's increasingly interactive. He participates when he watches "Dora." He'll try to do the actions when we sing songs, and he will even try to sing along. He likes to pick out his clothes now (out of a couple of appropriate options I give him). He has a crazy cackling, screeching laugh when he's hyper/silly.

Challenges: We're having so much fun... but of course the dark side of toddlerhood is also becoming more prominent. His tantrums are getting more frequent and worse. This month he's been weird about taking his coat and shoes off when we get home. If we try to remove them before he's ready he FREAKS out, and often it's a couple of hours before he'll voluntarily give them up. He automatically says "no" to everything: "NO nap," "NO dinner," "NO bath," "NO car ride," "NO daycare," "NO diaper," "NO bed." He's also becoming very bossy, as in "Get it!" and "Right now!" and "Hey, don't do that!" And he tries to physically push us around.

Cute words and phrases:

  • "I did it! Good job!" (He congratulations himself all the time; perhaps we praise him too much?)
  • "I can't reach it!" (Yeah, you're not supposed to reach it, buddy.)
  • "What happened?"
  • "Oh hear that? Birds!" (or cars, airplane, peoples, dogs, etc.)
  • "Yeah" and "okay" (It's just the way he says them.)
  • "Thank you, you're welcome." (He says them both at the same time.)
  • "Good morning!" (I'm a little less resentful about having to get up at 6:00 a.m. when he greets me with such sweetness.)
  • "One, two, three, one, blastoff!"
  • "Whayoodoin, Munny?" (Still love this one from last month.)

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Sooo...

>> Thursday, March 31, 2011

I feel like I should share that earlier this week I abruptly decided to call off TTC#2 for now. I let baby fever get the best of me. My husband was never really on board, but I sort of steamrolled over his concerns. And I cried to get my way. (Not really; I was honestly upset as we talked about the possibility of never having another child. I can't help it if my tears swayed him.)

But as things started to progress — as we met with the new RE and started testing — I started to get nervous and have doubts of my own. I wanted DH to reassure me, but he couldn't. We were, after all, moving ahead because I had insisted that everything would be okay.

I finally realized about a week ago that I was being selfish and unfair, and I decided to call it off. It was not an easy decision to make. I cried. A lot. But after a few days I think I found some peace in the decision. We are not closing the door on having another baby. For now we have agreed to reassess in January. I'm not sure if anything will have changed by then, but you never know, right? For example, we could win the lottery.

What? It could happen.

The bottom line is that Andrew gets to be an only child for at least another year and a half. Maybe that's not such a bad thing.

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Hugs

Today my sweet boy was much more affectionate with me than usual. Maybe it was because we switched daycare days this week, and after two days in a row apart from me he was feeling a little clingy. I don't know. But I soaked it up.

We went to the mall this morning, and as I was lifting him from stroller to car seat, he wrapped his little arms around my neck and put his head on my shoulder. I held him tighter, pressed my cheek against his head, and closed my eyes. Now, I know he was probably just sleepy, but for me the whole world faded away and I stood there for several minutes in the busy, slightly drizzly parking lot, just holding my baby and feeling so full of love and peace.

I had been feeling a little bit grumpy — I was tired and was bitter about spending too much money on not-fun things at the mall — but those few moments soothed me, cleared away the fog, and I felt much lighter as I got in the car.

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